Most women desire their men to be successful (and vice versa). Successful men are smart and savvy. They make good decisions.

When occasions like Valentine’s Day and Anniversaries come, women want their men to buy gifts that don’t make financial sense. Even when many of them are still finding their footing in their career and earning an average pay.

Isn’t that contradicting? Smart, successful men making poor financial decisions?

Successful people, be it men or women, are always in control, especially of their money. Whereas average people are always letting all kinds circumstances control how their money is being spent.